Night and darkness attract dark romantics like light attracts a moth, because the mysticism of what is hidden in the dark enchants and soothes the black souls of those who do not describe themselves as normal and therefore more or less do not conform to the social norm. It's especially nice when this (self-)realisation doesn't cause gloom on the one hand, and on the other, when you can give your own deep black heart to a like-minded partner. So it's especially nice when two children of the night find each other among dark and gloomy Gothic fans, who want to discover the secrets of the shadows together and who would love to say ‘I do’ according to conventional standards.